What is it with people not dating anymore? I just learned that four people I know and feel are friendly, nice, and even moderately attractive have never been on dates. What is this...we skip the dating and go straight to sex now? Bleh. Exert some effort people, lest you have to tell your children things like... well we never had a first date I followed your Daddy home from a bar, we had raucous sex, the next morning we kissed, a day after that I learned his last name and two weeks later he moved into my apartment.